1. THE SEXUAL ORIENTATION TEST

INTRO:

This blog was created mainly for EDUTAINMENT (=education + entertainment) purposes for adults, most especially FOR THOSE who are in the closet like me.




I named this blogspot “secretBI” because most people who are IN THE CLOSET consider themselves “BIsexual” or “straight with bisexual tendencies” and they NEVER want to come out.
Some of them lead double lives, keeping it on the DOWN LOW (DL) but some are homosexually repressed and try so hard to live 'heterosexually.'



THE SEXUAL ORIENTATION TEST

This test is a quick and simple way to determine your sexual orientation.

But before you take the test, I suggest you 'quick-read' the FACTS about sexual orientation here : http://www.apa.org/pi/lgbc/publications/justthefacts.html
or:
http://www.apa.org/topics/sorientation.html


{one of ma fave books ^. )

If you don't want to read it, here's the GIST:
BISEXUALITY and HOMOSEXUALITY is NOT an ILLNESS/disorder NOR an abnormality. BEING TURNED ON BY THE SAME SEX IS AS NORMAL AS BEING TURNED ON BY THE OPPOSITE SEX.



NEGATIVE BELIEFS ASSOCIATED WITH HOMOSEXUALITY and BISEXUALITY, e.g (non-heterosexual behavior is SINFUL and IMMORAL) ARE JUST THAT - BELIEFS that were contrived by people in the past who knew ABSOLUTELY NOTHING about the FACTS about human sexuality.



THE GUILT FEELING or the 'DIRTY SHAME' THAT YOU FEEL WHENEVER YOU HAVE HOMOSEXUAL/BISEXUAL THOUGHTS OR ENGAGE IN SUCH ACTS ARE MERELY A RESULT OF THE CULTURAL AND RELIGIOUS CONDITIONING that most of us adults have gone through in the past.






If you had been educated about the facts before you got exposed to those negative beliefs and misinformation about non-heterosexuality and even human SEXuality in general, you wouldn't feel that GUILT or REMORSE at all.


(^ I totally recommend this book to y'all!!
EVERYONE SHOULD KNOW THE FACTS first before BELIEVING IN ANYTHING...

RELIGION instills FEAR in people to make them believe whereas SCIENCE requires COURAGE to question things and obliges people to ANALYZE, INVESTIGATE, CONDUCT painstaking RESEARCHES and experiments before considering something as a FACT.... (of course, there are also good things about religion but it's MAN-MADE, and thus has some flaws >>> I'll be creating a humorous BLOG about science and religion soon)